Have you met any person saying, “Hey! I love it when you start discussing any topic and the way you brighten everyone on a given point and how it should help any one if used daily” ?
Well! if yes then you must feel great about yourself as you picked the right attitude that is acceptable every time by anyone you meet.
Let’s check few pointers that can help us build us attain the right attitude.
Below are few pointers that really work wonders for many and even for me to showcase the right Attitude:
1. Time and Situation:
Always act as per time and situation. Let’s take an example of a situation where you are invited for a party and you have visited the place for the first time. It is good to smile and greet people and learn more about them rather than talking about yourself. Words like “WOW”, “I wish I was a part of the celebration or the trek” etc. would be great acknowledgements to be accepted by the crowd rather than speaking your own close to heart topics. Of course you will have to keep a check on the timing of your statements which must be inline with the speaker else you must be ready for the heat.
You are definitely allowed to give eligible feedback where the speaker must not be defended. So, practice “THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK”. This can be easily mastered if you can read peoples expressions that would help you understand if they like your comments or not.
Say things that please the speaker and make sure don’t overdo it. Like the right way is to say “It was great listening to you” rather than “I was just spell bound after listening to you”.
2. Feelings and Beliefs of People:
Remember if you are surrounded with people who belong to a certain group of belief and who feel the same way about a practice, you must know what is the entire history that have encouraged them too.
Learn the concept of what made them belief in the practice and comment otherwise only if you have a logical reason.
Perception is one thing that cannot change as this has been developed over ages right from your childhood. If you start thinking that there is any person who must change his/her perception then you must know how to approach. You never directly say “It’s not the right thought you carry” rather say, “May I understand what made you develop this perception?”
1. Right Attitude always helps people adjust to any environment.
2. Attitude helps people maintain their dignity and Self -image
3. Attitude provides a platform for people to express their values and views and if depicted the right way it can be of great difference to other peoples lives and you get a fan following list of people.
4. Attitude by observing other peoples behaviors and learning from the consequences
Maintaining harmony with the attitude you carry can make great balance in ones life and create the biggest impression that you can ever make.
Your Right Attitude Can Make You Approachable, Unbeatable, Acceptable universally.